THOU SHALT NOT GOSSIP!

it was again another BORING day at work..sigh... how i wish my team leader will give me tonnes of work to do... :(

so me,13th Panda, and another colleague were chatting our mouths off the WHOLE DAY...hahaha even i myself couldnt believe that we actually chatted from the morning till the afternoon! i feel a little guilty, to be receiving today's wages when i didn't do any work... but there is ABSOLUTELY nothing to do! Well, i guess thats how it is with project-based work...okok..enough with these mindless musings...haha.

so...we were talking so much crap..and at the end i came out with this topic...WHY ON EARTH ISIT THAT MY PARENTS WONT LET ME GO TO MY BF'S HOUSE?? well..for those with open minded parents ..i dont think this is such a big deal. Surprisingly, all 3 of our parents think alike. That's how kuchingite-parents think i gez...

they don't think its appropriate for a gal to go to a guy's house too often mainly because of these 2 obvious reasons:

1. Afraid that those 2 might be up to no good *wink wink*
2. Afraid of gossips

For No1 ... i have no say. No matter how i try to convince my mom that no no ... we only watch tv at his house..etc etc until i run out of saliva ... my mom wouldnt accept my explanations.

For reason no 2 however....oh boy... this is what i have to say...why worry about what other people will say??? no 1...our peers of course won't be saying anything if they know we gfs visit our bfs at their houses...that leaves the OLD FOLKS. I mean ... why poke your nose in other people's children's business???

Ya...so the MR SO N SO's son brings a Mr So n So's daughter to the house...SO WHAT??? Putting it in a bad way...even if Mr So n So's daughter gets pregnant... its none of your blahdi business isnt it?

So...why do our parents worry about us visiting our bfs house too often THEN??? The answer.................. ?

Its because our parents have gossiped about other people's daughters going to a guys house at least once in their lives. That's why they are so worried that their daughter might be gossiped back and then they might lose face. It makes sense doesnt it??? Chinese fear for their reputation the most!

Well...if in the first place they do not gossip about other people's children...why then do you worry about being gossiped???

DISCLAIMER:this is only my assumption...pls do not blame me if this is not the case with your kuchingite parents...hahahaha